![]() Thank-you for coming to visit us. I would like to tell you a little about
my Skylar and why she's so special.
My name is Marquette Haynes; I'm the Mum of a 4-year old little girl who received
a life saving gift of a liver transplant, on June 16th, 2001 in Miami, Florida.
When my daughter, Skylar Nicole Haynes was born on August 24th, 1998 we
never thought she would change the course of our lives or inspire so many to
change theirs.
You see she was born with four holes in her heart. At the time we were told she
may need open heart surgery but as we were to find out later that was only the
beginning.
Blood work and examinations soon revealed an enlarged spleen and a liver twice
the normal size. At eight weeks Skylar had an open liver biopsy and was
diagnosed with Alpha-1 Antitrypsin Deficiency (Alpha-1). Alpha-1 is a serious
hereditary disorder that can result in life-threatening liver and/or lung disease in
children and adults.
Although her heart healed itself over time, her liver did not. Skylar's liver function
was slowly beginning to deteriorate and there was nothing we could do to stop it.
Her only hope was a liver transplant.
By the age of two Skylar had battled pneumonia six times. She had to have all of
her upper teeth removed due to Acid Reflux. A hole in her bladder was leaking
back into her left kidney causing Urinary Reflux. She had her tonsils and adenoids
taken out and ear tubes put in and removed twice due to excessive bleeding.
After a hernia in her stomach and the Acid Reflux were surgically repaired
she began to develop fluid around her liver and spleen. Her blood levels dropped
dangerously low leaving her completely unable to fight off infection. We knew the
need to be listed for transplant was becoming urgent.
On April 21, 2001 she was placed on the University of Miami/Jackson Memorial
liver transplant list. Six weeks later we received our first call. My husband and I
were thrilled, scared and sad all at the same time because we knew another family
would be grieving in our time of joy. Skylar was flown to Miami via a Med-flight for
the operation. But when we arrived we were informed the liver was
damaged and they could not proceed with the transplant. The medical team
examined Skylar and asked us to stay in Miami. Twenty-four hours later the call
came again. This time it was a perfect match. We rushed to the hospital. Thirteen
and a half hours later the liver was in place and working beautifully. SKYLAR HAD
A NEW LIVER!!!!
During the operation my husband and I were watching the news in the lobby when
a woman came on the screen. Chills ran up my arms as she told the story of her
two small children, a brother--Taylor age 4--and a sister--Amber age 2-- who had
drowned in a backyard pool hours before Skylar's surgery. I can't tell you how, but
I knew they were our donors. Never in my wildest dreams did I ever think we would
actually meet and I would call her a friend.
Even though Skylar had undergone the life saving operation and things seemed
fine, the time after surgery was critical. There were concerns of infection and
bleeding, worst of all her body could reject the organ. On the fifth day after surgery,
still in ICU, I noticed her abdomen had become enlarged. I spoke with the nurse
and together we watched over her through the night. By morning we knew
something was wrong, Skylar was bleeding. She was rushed into
emergency surgery to remove the excess blood from her abdomen and repair the
leaking hepatic artery.
By the age of three my daughter had been hospitalized over 30 times for 17
operations, three liver biopsies and countless infections. She was also diagnosed
with hereditary Epilepsy, which was causing her to have seizures before and after
the transplant. Despite the adversities, Skylar remains an amazing child. She
smiles at everyone with a gentle spirit and a wonderful personality many have
come to love. She holds her arm out for her weekly blood draw and never once has
complained.
The liver transplant cured Skylar of Alpha-1 and for that we are grateful. So we now
dedicate our lives to raising awareness of Alpha-1 and the importance of organ
donation. My daughter was blessed but there are others who are still waiting for
their gift.
Although Skylar has recovered from Alpha-1 she also suffers from other conditions.
She was recently diagnosed with Pancreatic Insufficiency. Her pancreas has
stopped producing the necessary enzymes to enable her body to absorb nutrition.
A 24-hour jejunum feeding tube has been placed in her intestines to help keep her
body from starving itself to death. The tube is keeping Skylar alive. But it hasn't
slowed her down as she runs down the hallway pushing her feeding pole chasing
her sisters and laughing.
Skylar has her own website and during this difficult year since the transplant, more
than 10,000 people have logged on to read her story. She has been able to touch
more lives with her smile and courage than I ever could have imagined. If you would
like to read more about Skylar you can log on to her website, at:
www.rdwebworks.com/skylar
God bless you and thank you for letting me share Skylar's story.
Sincerely,
Marquette Haynes (Skylar's Mum)
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